Not Everything is a Discussion
Why are you debating what’s already decided?
Not everything is a discussion. Someone might want to discuss whether the Earth is flat. But it simply isn’t.
Yet you’re still sitting in meetings where people “explore different perspectives” on settled matters. Still entertaining conversations about whether quality matters. Still listening to someone explain why deadlines are just suggestions.
What you call being open-minded is being weak-minded.
Some things aren’t opinions. They’re facts. The project deadline isn’t negotiable, it’s contractual. Customer satisfaction isn’t optional, it’s survival. The moment you debate the undebatable, you’ve already lost.
You think you’re being diplomatic by saying, “Let’s discuss this.” But what you’re really saying is “I’m not confident enough to state what’s true.”
The next time someone wants to “explore” whether standards apply to them, don’t engage. Don’t explain. Don’t justify.
Just say: “That’s not a discussion.”